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9-12 Month Developmental Milestones

Movement and physical development

Normal development

  • Gets to a sitting position without help
  • Pulls up to stand, walks holding on to furniture (“cruising”)
  • May take a few steps without holding on
  • May stand alone

Possible challenges from treatment

  • Fewer chances to explore and have new experiences due to procedures and treatment. Tubes, drains, and lack of space can keep baby from moving and exploring normally.
  • Slower to learn large body movements, such as controlling head and upper body while sitting, crawling, and standing without help.
  • Slower to learn small movements, especially hand/eye coordination and holding things with thumb and finger.

Ways to help

  • If available, go to hospital infant playtime to help baby learn physical skills.
  • Ask for floor mat for movement and exploring.
  • Give toys with texture or musical toys to get baby interested in grabbing and moving objects.
  • Show baby “hide and seek” and other interactive games.
 

Language and communication

Normal development

  • Responds to simple spoken requests
  • Uses simple gestures, like shaking head “no” or waving “bye-bye”
  • Makes sounds with changes in tone (sounds more like speech)
  • Says “mama” and “dada” and exclamations like “uh-oh!”
  • Tries to say words you say

Possible challenges from treatment

  • Fewer chances to be social and communicate due to feeling sick, tired, and sometimes mouth sores.
  • Might be slow to develop language or say first words.
  • Certain medications might impact hearing, which in turn can impact communication.

Ways to help

  • Read to, smile at, and sing to baby.
  • Talk about what is happening in the room.
  • Take walks so baby can explore surroundings and safe equipment.
  • Follow directions for proper hearing aid use if prescribed.

Social and emotional

Normal development

  • Is shy or nervous with strangers
  • Cries when mom or dad leaves
  • Has favorite things and people
  • Shows fear in some situations
  • Hands you a book when he wants to hear a story
  • Repeats sounds or actions to get attention
  • Puts out arm or leg to help with dressing
  • Plays games such as “peek-a-boo” and “pat-a-cake”

Possible challenges from treatment

  • Less interest in playing due to feeling sick and tired
  • Might go through painful procedures
  • Senses stress and anxiety in caregivers
  • Might be separated from parents in hospital or during procedures and be stressed by having different caregivers
  • More fussy, irritable, clingy, and anxious than normal
  • Bonding might be harder than usual because sickness and hospital surroundings make baby less trusting

Ways to help

  • Watch for times when baby is awake and alert and play as much as baby can handle.
  • Caregivers should prepare for procedures and learn how to help comfort baby
  • Parents and caregivers should take good care of themselves to reduce stress
  • Have the same caregiver as much as possible
  • Hold baby when meeting new staff to reduce anxiety
  • Encourage playfulness
 

Thinking and learning

Normal development

  • Explores things in different ways, like shaking, banging, throwing
  • Finds hidden things easily
  • Looks at the right picture or thing when it’s named
  • Copies gestures
  • Starts to use things correctly; for example, drinks from a cup, brushes hair
  • Bangs two things together
  • Puts things in a container, takes things out of a container
  • Lets things go without help
  • Pokes with index (pointer) finger
  • Follows simple directions like “pick up the toy”

Possible challenges from treatment

  • Less chance to physically explore their environment
  • Might feel less like playing, particularly when “counts” are low or after procedures
  • Fewer opportunities to observe others engaged in play
  • Certain medications can impact hearing, which in turn can impact learning
  • Certain medications may affect baby’s sense of touch, which in turn can affect baby’s physical exploration of materials

Ways to help

  • Provide your baby with toys that can be easily placed in and taken out of containers
  • Hide objects under blankets and encourage your baby to find the missing toys
  • Talk about what your baby does in play (e.g., “You are putting the block in the bucket, ‘plop!’ It made a noise when it hit the bottom, now you are taking it back out of the bucket”
  • Talk about what you are doing when playing with your baby or when engaged in daily tasks (e.g., “Daddy is hanging his coat up. Now I am going to wash my hands.”
  • Follow directions for proper hearing aid use if prescribed.
  • Read to your baby often; point to pictures within the book and name the items
  • Encourage your baby to point to pictures within the book—when they do so, name the items for them
  • When your baby follows simple commands, enthusiastically praise him or her for doing so

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